On the Road, Sort Of

On the Road Cover 02In 1960, during my freshman year at Harvard, I decided after reading Jack Kerouac’s On The Road that studying and exams were a waste of time and that I’d take a year off to hitchhike across the country, experiment with drugs and sex, write a novel, and get in touch with my inner self.

Among those who weren’t exactly thrilled by this news was my father, who in an uncalm manner asked such questions as, “And how the hell do you intend to support yourself, may I ask?” Though a little vague on particulars, I assured him that the income from odd jobs and my writing, plus the seizing of various financial opportunities as they arose, should see me through.

The prospect of being drafted for two years by the Army caused me to amend plans, and in the summer of 1960 I enlisted in a military alternative then available: six months active duty followed by six years active reserve. My first stop: Fort Jackson in Columbia, SC, for basic training.

That I was a boy being turned into a man gave me great pleasure and would my father as well, no doubt. I wasn’t in some dumb library, I was cramming for life—crawling under barbwire fences, cursing, sweating, grunting, chewing on dirt-balls.

One little problem marred my new self-image, however. My boxer shorts were slightly too large, and on long hikes the perspiration would drag them downward, so I was constantly trying to hitch them up with my right forearm—a nervous tic I still have. In the thick of battle—let’s agree—you don’t want to be tripping up on your underwear.

Anyway, on the early evening of January 11, 1961, I was discharged from the Army—Fort Sam Houston in San Antonio, Texas (where I’d spent the last four months). A couple of hours later, I found myself standing by the side of a highway with a barracks-mate named Alan who lived in Sacramento, CA, our destination—1,737 miles away.

Howard Johnsons 04cLet the odyssey begin! Only trouble…my dorm-room fantasies had failed to factor in that part of the 24-hour cycle called night and that part of the weather spectrum called cold. And Alan was not exactly big in the Charisma Department. And…across the highway a Howard Johnson Hotel beckoned—a siren with long, lustrous hair and beautiful orange breasts. But no, no, I must show the world what I was made of, and, rising to full height, I thrust my thumb forward!

Several hours passed until a car pulled over, and we piled in the back. Almost immediately, the driver’s companion turned and opened an attaché case full of watches. “Top quality,” he said, “And we’ll give you a special discount on any of them because we like you.”

Though admiring the watches, we indicated no interest in buying one. “That’s unfortunate,” the driver said, pulling over, and out we piled. It was now nearing midnight, and we’d traveled about seven miles.

It took some three days and nights to reach Sacramento. People who picked us up usually wanted to talk, so we took turns riding in front and napping in back. Attired in Army fatigues, bulky coats, and heavy boots, and carrying bulging duffel bags, we were always cramped and hot, not to mention hungry, thirsty, dirty, itchy, smelly, and sleep-deprived, plus in no position to say, “Mister, I need to go to the bathroom real bad.”

I soon gave up on jotting down the utterances of the colorful people of the open road, and by the second day, I was having hallucinations: Paul Bunyan kept crossing the road, and a ribbon of highway snaked back and tried to strangle me.

Nothing was more dreaded, of course, than the, “Well boys, here’s where I turn,” and we’d stumble out yet again in the middle of some new nowhere. Day was worse than night  (although night was worse than day, too—one of Zeno’s paradoxes, I believe), especially late one afternoon when God looked down from His Mighty Throne and said, “Now that they have a bad sunburn, unleash the heavens on them, so they will get very wet and no one will want to pick them up, and they will have time to reflect on the many errors of their ways.”

The only other time we woke up fully during the trip was when a man with a glistening bald head drove at high speeds on a hilly, winding road while eating spinach from a can with a screwdriver—the nearest we got to sex and drugs.

inkspotsThe high point came in California when we were picked up by the singing group, “The Ink Spots.” Nice guys, though I wish they’d broken into one of their hits—We Three, say—so I might have joined in. In high school I’d sung lead in a barbershop quartet, after all…

Sacramento! Stayed overnight with Alan’s family! Some of the finest people I’d ever known!

After working for a while as a waiter in San Francisco and pretending to be part of the counterculture, I—contrary to all reason—hit the highway again and thumbed my way to San Diego with a guy named Gus who picked up used-car batteries along the way (recharged and sold them). If I’d help load them onto his truck, Gus said, he’d buy me a piece of lemon pie. After spilling acid on myself all day—possibly neutering myself for life, for all I knew—we stopped for a break. I stepped on a fallen branch, which made a loud crack, and he spun around, grabbed me, and pinned me to the hood of truck: “An ex-con, I knew it!” “No, actually, Harvard class of ’60.”

Despite the threat I posed—the piece I packed and all—Gus grudgingly agreed to take me to San Diego, but he never did buy me a piece of lemon pie.

After living in a crummy boarding house for a few weeks, I decided one morning the time had come to head home and…grabbed the first train out of town. Two days later I arrived in Tallahassee on Easter Saturday, all of us very happy to see each other again.

South PacificHaving run into trouble with the novel I was working on, mostly the-writing-of-it part, I had—for reasons that went far beyond the inexplicable—chosen to rewrite the lyrics to most of the South Pacific songs. Maybe I thought it would be a useful exercise, maybe I thought I could improve them, who knew, who cared—except those who had to feign great enthusiasm at hearing them sung after dinner. Harvard for this?

Otherwise, we had a lovely weekend, and on Monday Dad flew to Chicago to give a speech. Having drinks with friends that night, he complained of chest pains, was rushed to the hospital, and died a few hours later.  He was 53, Mother was 48. She went on to live a great life, outlived her second husband, and died at 97.

I look back on that year with a mixture of pride and regret: glad I saw the thing through, but sad that Dad didn’t live long enough to understand why it’d been so important to me.

Bob Stozier head shotRobert Strozier’s fiction and non-fiction have appeared in numerous publications including Atlantic, Esquire, The New Times Magazine, and The NYT Book Review. He’s had plays produced in NYC, and a musical he wrote (book and lyrics) has had five concert readings. He also helped launch five national magazines, then served as Editor-in-Chief of two and a senior editor at the others.





29 Replies to “On the Road, Sort Of”

  1. Knew many kids in the sixties who came from a place of incredible privilege. While they were on the road being free, some of us were working to pay our way through college, not having parents who could help. Many of my friends backpacked through the USA and Europe. A few of my girlfriends were raped in Europe but never mentioned it to their friends. It was all so romantic you see. I did not go to Woodstock that weekend when my rich white friends drove up to my apartment as I had to work. In the end I became a doctor and they dropped out and went to work for their father’s company. Karma is a bitch! My dad did not live to see me become a doctor but he was proud of my accomplishments!

  2. Hilarious and touching account Bob, of the gap between the real and the imagined. Your article reminds me of trying to find my own way through in life, including false starts, messy mistakes and less than stellar adventures. I wish your dad had seen the man you became and your contribution to the literary world.

  3. Wonderful piece, Bob! Sorry dad didn’t get to live long enough to see your many accomplishments, but forever happy that you got home in time to say goodbye to him.

  4. “a man with a glistening bald head drove at high speeds on a hilly, winding road while eating spinach from a can with a screwdriver”
    This man needs his own short story… or maybe the lead in your novel?!”

  5. What a treat, Bob! You made my heart sing reminding me of my past “including some less than stellar adventures” that I thought were so dramatic. Tell us more… Cheers Judy Patterson

    1. Thanks for your nice words. When reminded of some of my past deeds, it’s not singing I want to do but groaning. Anyway now why don’t you tell the readers of OC about some of these stellar adventures.

  6. Wow! Bob! What an incredible coming of age adventure! Hitch hiking clear across the country?! I loved that The Ink Spots picked you up. I wish they’d sung with you, too. So cool. And I loved that you rewrote the songs in “South Pacific.” When we meet again, you’ll have to sing your version. Ha! Lastly, I’m so happy that you made it home to Tallahassee and saw your Father before he died. I thoroughly enjoy this trip with you. Thank you.

    1. Thanks much. Believe me, you’re the only person who’s asked to hear my rendition of South Pacific. I’ll start rehearsing immediately! Cheerio.

  7. Thanks for your nice words. When reminded of some of my past deeds, it’s not singing I want to do but groaning. Anyway now why don’t you tell the readers of OC about some of these stellar adventures.

  8. Bob, thanks so much for sharing your adventure with us! To begin such a trip by hitch-hiking through West Texas would have been enough to cause a mere mortal to turn back immediately. Proof enough of your determination.
    Thanks again!

  9. Very much enjoyed your On the Road adventures.
    Who would have suspected that mild mannered Bob, now ensconced in
    Tampaville, had ever……
    Bet you never thought you would be Zooming with us elderly teenagers at this stage of life’s journey and enlightening OLLIers with poetic insights at Cath’s Poetry Zoom Bar.

  10. Ah, the wonderful fantasies of youth and the wonderful actual experiences of youth! Thank you, Bob, for your glorious writing. I am feeling young even though I am not. I bet your Dad is smiling right now.

  11. Hello Bob,

    I fell about reading your piece! It is such a lovely blend of humor, nostalgia, and poignancy. I hitch hiked a lot during my youth in England and it was so interesting to read an account of the American experience of that way of travel. Thanks for taking me back to that time of my life.

  12. Thanks. Lemme know if you want hit the highway again. You sure have a lot more charisma than Alan did.

  13. Hi Bob,
    Your story was so funny, and I could relate to much of it. I’m so sorry about your father, however. I thought my dad died way too young at 69 years old, but yours was even younger. A bittersweet ending to your journey.

  14. Hi Bob, I loved the spontaneity in describing your adventures and your superb writing style. Please grace us with many more stories. My most daring escapades can’t compare to yours: sleeping under a tree or in a car in a hotel parking lot. Well, maybe once, when I smuggled jewelry through the Iron Curtain, but I never hitch-hiked.

  15. Hi Bob. I enjoyed your narrative very much, both text and subtext. I admire your gift of navigating life with grace and humor. Thank you for sharing.

  16. Thanks, Bob, for your bittersweet recollection of that important transition year in your life. I’m glad I procrastinated reading it because it gave me more than a year to get to know you a bit through our OLLI Poetry Discussion Group. So, as I read your essay, I heard your voice complete with humor, regret, optimism, youth and more. Thank you for sharing your story.

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